When you walk in from getting your 18 month old dressed, and you are a bit frazzled and running a bit late, and you see your three year old eating red jello on your custom upholstered chair for breakfast.
One, don't tell your husband that red jello isn't an appropriate breakfast food. And two, don't tell him that eating RED jello on an expensive chair isn't appropriate either.
That would just be "bitching for no reason."
I thought I would pass that little tidbit of advice on to you.
You are welcome.